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I am a SAHM of 3 and a wife of one. I started a blog to just bitch about life and now our youngest son is very sick I want to hear from other families going thru this and support eachother. He has SBS secondary to NEC with only 50 cm proximal jejunum and a 3 cm segment of terminal ileum. He is TPN dependent. He is a tough little 6 lb, 3 month old! Keeping my mind from turning to mush, Scentsy was introduced to me and I'm very thankful. The wonderful people in this community has changed my life. Even so, chaos in our house is a daily adventure. Some days, alright most days.. I take things minute by minute. To get through this bumpy road called 'life' I need my husband Jerad and my kids, my son Jordan 15, and my daughter Jaycee who is 11, and my son Jaxon is 3 months...I say it how it is... So I will say this.... "If you don't like what you are reading, you have the choice to leave my page. Nice, bitchy, raging lunitic, loving.. that's me! I admit I swear like a sailor, I may have different religious beliefs, I hate brussel sprouts with a passion.. these are all ways to describe ME.. I love making new friends but I will not 'pretend' to be someone I'm not just for their sake.

Saturday, September 25, 2010



     Well the last two days have been very interesting.  I received a phone call from Jordan's principal, saying she had him in her office that there had been an "incident".  My first thought was if he was okay.  She said he was fine but after lunch walking down the hallway with his friends there was a problem.  She then told me there was another kid that in her words was being 'very inappropriate' towards Jordan.  I have taught my kids to just ignore people if they are calling names, etc.  Jordan has been bullied all through school and he doesn't want to get in trouble so he just lets it happen.  After a few problems we had with bullying I was getting ready to go kick some ass on his behalf, I was sick of it!  So I told my kids, "If you start a fight, I will whoop ya, but I will also whoop ya if you don't defend yourself".  So back to this altercation at school... Jordan told this kid to leave him alone...he didn't.  Jordan pushed him a little and said to back off!  Again, the kid continued.  The third time Jordan physically shut him up.  The principal said, "The kid actually got hurt!".  She said Jordan has always been a good kid, so she was just going to give him 2 days in-school suspension.  She said, "Do you have any questions?" Of course I said yes.  I said, "Is the kid in the hospital?", she said, "No", well then I said, "Okay then what kind of punishment did he get for being the aggressor?"  she said, "He would be getting a suspension at home, also Jordan wants to know if he's in trouble with you?". My response, "Hell no!".  When someone warns you and warns you to back off, and they don't, they should EXPECT to be beat to the ground.  I'm proud of my son!


  1. I feel proud for you. I agree with you 100%. You go MOM!

  2. LOVE IT! Though at home suspension is just a vacation from school!

    Good for your son! I teach my daughter the same thing - dont start it but feel free to finish it!

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  4. We always tell our kids don't start fights but don't be anybody's punching bag. Bullying sucks...sometimes even more so when its verbal assaults. How long are kids supposed to sit back and take being teased and made fun of before they lose it?
    Good for your boy for standing up for himself...maybe that kid will think twice before he pulls that shit next time.


  5. I am now a follower. Also, my elementary school likes to punish both sides of a disagreement. I will not stand for that the next time my son defends hiself. Like Jordan, he can be tough, but if some kid pushes him he has a right to push back and I cannot let the school punish him for it, we went through this in 1st grade with a violient kid in his grade. I am on the defensive with his school everyday, and I know my attitude is not the best, but don;t mess with my son!

  6. I'd be proud of your son too!! Holy Cow, I don't want to raise a wimp either. School policies drive me nuts sometimes. Good for you and your son momma!

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  7. When I send MY child to school, I am putting trust in them to teach and watch out for the best interest of the children. If they can't nip this 'bullying' in the ass, then who will? And it's only getting worse. Sad.